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So is it other than the
religion of Allāh they desire, while to Him have
submitted [all] those within the heavens and earth,
willingly or by compulsion, and to Him they will be
returned?
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Assalam u alaikum.
I just wanted to share an experience I had that
indicates how sometimes small things that we tell to our
children can make a big difference. We might not even
think that they are very important.
One day before Valentines Day, my son, who is six years
old, brought home a card cut in the shape of a heart. I
was surprised and I asked him what it was. He told me,
"Mama - It's a Valentine's day card I made for Sarah, a
girl in my class." I asked him, "Do you know what
Valentine's Day is?" He did not know as he is still
small. My older son said that he did know about it.
Through Allah's guidance, I read Al Huda's pamphlet on
Valentine's Day and I got a chance to distribute it to
older children and ladies in our mosque. I read it to
both of them and they just listened. I realized the
importance of my telling them the next day when my older
son came home and said, "Mama - I am glad that you read
to us about Valentine's Day. In school, everybody was
asking others to be their Valentine. Since I knew what
it really was about, I did not."
Later on he came to me and said, "A friend of mine asked
a girl to be his Valentine and she refused. He was very
upset. Then I told him about Valentine's history and he
understood." After hearing this from him, I was so
happy. Now I am thinking about how important it is to
share these things with them. Satan always tells you
that they will not listen but they do listen if you tell
them in a friendly way. I wish we can have more
pamphlets like that about all the occasions that our
children encounter. I wish we can have more pamphlets
like that about all the occasions that our kids think
they are missing something. Jazakum Allahu Khairun for
having such material available for us.
Please share more with us so that we can start to tell
them more.
Assalamu alaikum
Syeda Naureen
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